Saturday, January 4, 2025

The Absent Friends of 2024 - A Final Tribute


2024 was the fifteenth (!!) year that I have been pounding out these Grandstander pieces, and I have come to love the fact that one of the more popular features of this Blog has been my Absent Friends posts.   In all, I recognized 35 Absent Friends in 2024, which brought the total since I began doing this to 519.  For you trivia buffs out there, Absent Friend #500 was actress/stuntwoman Susan Backlinie, who played Chrissy Watkins, the skinny-dipper who got served up as a midnight snack to the great white shark at the beginning of the movie "Jaws" in 1975, and she is the perfect example of why I do this.

The list this year includes a very personal loss to our family caused by the passing of my mother-in-law, Yvonne "Grandma Bonnie" Mulzet.  As I wrote at the time, I only knew her for three years, but the outpouring of remembrances and love that we experienced upon her death told me that I was the one who missed out by not knowing her longer.

2024 was a tough year for sports immortals.  Seven of tis last year's Friends were/are members of various sports Halls of Fame, and that doesn't include non-HOF'ers, but still significant figures like Pete Rose, Fernando Valenzuela, Carl Erskine, and Andy Russell.   I also introduced a new category called Absent Scoundrels for people who for various reason can't be considered Friends, but whose passing bears noting.  There were two of them, O.J. Simson and Cyril Wecht,  this year.  For Rose, I just left the heading blank, because he can be considered both a Friend and a Scoundrel, depending one your point off view.

So below is a list of all those Absent Friends recognized in 2024.  If you want to see what I wrote about these folks at the time of their passing, just type their name in the Search Box at the top of this post.

NOTE: This list does not include President Jimmy Carter who died on December 29.  Holiday busy-ness prevented me from getting a chance to write my tribute to him, but earlier this afternoon, our 39th President became the first Absent Friend of 2025.

Shecky Greene

Cindy Morgan

Joyce Randolph

Melanie Safka

Charles Osgood

Andy Russell

Ed Ott

Chris Mortensen

Randy Sparks

Yvonne Mulzet, aka "Grandma Bonnie"

Larry O'Brien

Carl erskine

Roman Gabriel

O.J. Simpson

Cyril Wecht

Susan Backlinie

Bill Walton

Jerry West

Howard Fineman

Willie Mays

Donald Sutherland

Orlando Cepeda

Bobby Grier

Remo Saraceni

Bob Newhart

Johnny Gaudreau

Matthew Gaudreau

Joe Schmidt

Pete Rose

Fernando Valenzuela

Teri Garr

Quincy Jones

Elwood Edwards

Marshall Brickman

Rickey Henderson

Rest in peace, one and all.



 

To Absent Friends - Jimmy Carter



President of the United States
1977-1981
Nobel Peace Prize Recipient 2004
Lifetime Humanitarian

Jimmy Carter, the 39th President of the United States, died last week at the age of 100.  Carter had a "Former Presidency" of forty-four years, the longest in history, he lived longer than another US President, and had a marriage that lasted longer than any other President, 77 years.  These are just answers to trivia questions, though.

Carter's presidency will probably not be favorably judged by history.  It was beset with problems with inflation, domestic gasoline shortages (remember gas lines and odd/even days when you could gas up your vehicle?), and was surely done in by the Iranian Hostage Crisis.  He was denied a second term in 1980 when he was defeated by Ronald Reagan.

Few will doubt, however, that there never was and may  never be a greater "Former President" than Jimmy Carter.  Retirement for Carter and his wife, Rosslynn, who died in 2023 at the age of 96, did not consist of making speeches for six figures. Instead, he traveled the world monitoring elections in foreign countries, built homes for Habitat for Humanity (and he hands-on built them, he didn't just show up to cut ribbons), and, as he had done all of his life, he continued to teach Sunday School in hs home town of Plains, GA, and he did all of this well into his nineties.

A great President? Perhaps not, but the Presidency may never have been filled by a greater human being.

RIP, Mr. President.


 

Wednesday, January 1, 2025

A Couple of Movies For Your Consideration


Pictured to my left is the ancient Roman god, Janus, for whom the month January is named, because, as you can see, Janus looked both backward and forward.  He was the "god of beginnings and ends, entrances and exits, change, transition, gateways, doorways, and arches" (per Google). Those Romans were good when it came to naming the months of the year.  The grandstander does a lot of looking forward and backward at this time of the year, so the next several posts will be looks both back and ahead as we have now closed out 2024 and kick-started 2025.

Let's start with a popular Grandstander feature, a couple of movie reviews, plus my 2024 rankings.

"A Complete Unknown"


This of course is the much anticipated Bob Dylan biopic that stars Timothee Chalamet as Dylan, and when I first saw the teasers for this film sometime this summer, it went to the top of my "Must See" list, and I was not disappointed.   Chalamat looks like Dylan, talks like him, and most importantly, sings like him.  His performance will surely garner him an Oscar nomination.  The same goes for Edward Norton who played Pete Seeger in this movie.  Chalamet, Norton, and Monica Barbaro, who plays Joan Baez, all did their own singing and played their own instruments in the movie, and they were terrific.

The movie covers the time period when twenty year old Bob Zimmerman arrived in New York City from Hibbing, Minnesota in 1961 up until his appearance at the Newport Folk Festival in 1965 when "Dylan went electric".  It captures the time and place of New York and the folk music scene and all of the cultural changes that were taking place in the early 1960's very well.  

I had three scenes that were my favorites in the movie, all at Newport in different years:
  • When Dylan sings "The Times They Are A-Changing"
  • When Dylan and Baez sing "It Ain't Me, Babe" while a tearful Suze Rotolo (a real life early Dylan girlfriend who is for some reason is named "Sylvie Russo" in the movie) watches from backstage
  • The entire "going electric" performance at Newport in 1965
Some Dylan-ologists in the online world are taking issue with the movie for all the usual reasons.....this event didn't happen in the sequence depicted in the film....the actors should not have done their own singing, they should have lip-synched the actual recordings of Dylan, Baez, and Seeger.....the time frame is off.  To all of that, I say what a friend of mine was once told when he served as a consultant on a movie that was being filmed in Pittsburgh years ago and told the movie makers that were were never any steel mills visible from Forbes Field: "This is a movie, not a documentary."  It should also be known that Dylan, while not a formal consultant on the movie, did meet with the screenwriters and the actors as the film was being made and has no problem with any of it.  He did say, however, that if you see the movie, you should then read the book upon which it is based, "Dylan Goes Electric" by Elijah Wald, something that I plan on doing.

I am predicting Oscar nominations for Best Picture and Acting nominations for Chalamet, Norton, and maybe even Elle Fanning who played Sylvie.

Oh, and when you go, stay for all of the credits.  Three classic Dylan songs, sung by Dylan himself play over them as they roll along.

Four Stars form The Grandstander.  I can't wait to see it again.

"Anora"

This is a movie that was a darling of the film festival crowd and is popping up on numerous Ten Best lists.

Mikey Madison plays Ani (she doesn't like being called Anora), a sex worker in New York City.  She works in a strip club, coaxes men into private rooms for lap dances, and will even meet up with men outside of the club and have sex with them for money, but she is not, she insists, a prostitute.  One such customer is Vanya, the twenty year old son of a Russian oligarch who is richer that God.  Vanya takes a shine to Ani, and asks her to spend a week with him in exchange for $15,000.  She agrees, but this is no Julia Roberts-Richard Gere-Pretty Woman deal.  While on a spree in Las Vegas, Ani and Vanya get married.   Word soon gets back to the old man in Russia who then sends three of his goons to pay a visit to the newlyweds and make the whole thing go away.

The movie is in three acts, and I am not sure what to think of them when taken all together.  Act One depicts the lives of these sex workers.  It's gritty and dangerous, not at all glamorous, and, frankly, Linda and I were tempted to quit watching as it unfolded.  Act Two takes place when the three underlings come to the house where Vanya is staying and attempt to convince the couple to get the marriage annulled.  During this time, Vanya bolts from the house and Ani fights off the goons, and it is funny and terrifying at the same time.  Act Three is the search to find Vanya, the arrival of his parents from Russia, and I'll say no more so as to avoid spoilers.

I am not sure what to make of the ending of the movie.  You can go online and find all kinds of opinions as to just what the ending is supposed to mean.  I'm still not sure.  I will say this, though, "Anora" was a movie we talked about for several days after watching it.

Two Stars from The Grandstander.

My 2024 Movie Rankings

I am not a professional movie critic.  I don't have to see every movie that comes down the pike.  I only see the movies that I want to see, and as such,  I am  inclined to like them from the start.  In all I saw twenty-five movies in calendar year 2024.  Some were seen on theaters, some were streamed, and some were older movies that I had seen for the first time.  I rank them as I go along throughout the year, and the rankings are based upon how much I actually liked the movie.

Here they are:

  1. A Complete Unknown
  2. Wicked
  3. Conclave
  4. Here
  5. The Holdovers*
  6. Anatomy of A Fall*
  7. Anora
  8. It Ends With Us
  9. The Fall Guy
  10. The Greatest Night in Pop
  11. Remembering Gene Wilder
  12. In Cold Blood (1967)
  13. Past Lives*
  14. American Fiction*
  15. Poor Things*
  16. Maestro*
  17. Unfrosted
  18. Infamous (2005)
  19. Wicked Little Letters*
  20. Taylor Swift, The Eras Tour
  21. Woman of the Hour
  22. The Zone of Interest*
  23. Megalopolis
  24. Green for Danger (1946)
  25. Napoleon Dynamite (2005)

* 2023 Movies seen in 2024


Seven of these were released in 2023 for the purposes of Oscar consideration, but I didn't see them until the calendar turned to 2024.

I will say that I had a hard time deciding whether our not to place Wicked or A Complete Unknown in the Number One spot, and I used this criterion to decide:  What movie am I most likely to see a second time, and that made the choice a simple one.